Whoa, hold up.... you're not going to see it with an RMS meter. First of all you're using the wrong tool. I don't mean that as an insult, aside from EE guys, most aren't going to recognize this. Fluke builds a good meter, but I seriously doubt it's anywhere near fast enough to capture an event like that. You need to be looking at that with an oscilloscope. It's the only device that will show you the voltage, duration, and wave shape.
An analog or digital meter is going to take the average value of what it's seeing. With a scope you can see if it's getting a single shot for opening, double pulse, 3 or whatever. Plus, since just about every scope out there today is at least 2 channels, you can look at open and close simultaneously.
And, depending on what tools you have available, you could also look at the current waveform. This would be really helpful if you're trying to diagnose a bad connection vs a bad FICM driver.
Now, the $5 question is who has a portable sillyscope that they can grab and play with? I have a monster bench model, and it's anything but portable.