Thanks Mr Resident Metallurgist!
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How about Ti-something?
Titanium alloys are a step up from Al but still only half that of steel. Amazing stuff, those old antique iron based fuddy duddy no-bling alloys.
Steels = ~29 million psi
Ti alloys = ~16 million psi
aluminum alloys = ~10 million psi
If ya wanna get nerdy, the deflection of the wrist pin is always directly proportional to the section moment of inertia (I) and the Young's modulus of the material (E). The formula for a solid round bar is this:
I = pi * D^4 / 64
and the deflection of a simply supported beam is:
y = Load * length^3 / 48*E*I)
So, as I and E go up, deflection goes down, and your wrist pin bearings are happier. And your wrist pin thanks you and agrees to function for another day and shrugs off fatigue.
The biggest thing to notice in all of this is that the stiffness (and all related stresses) are dependent on D (diameter) to the 4th power.
This means if you are going to try to go smaller diameter, your only choice is a steel pin. If you wanna go lightweight wall, you need D as large as you can get away with in order to deal with the thinner wall or more flexy material.
Titanium does not have stellar wear/bearing properties. It is grippy and not slippery, and more tricky to get a nice surface finish on. So if you were going to try that route, I'd be looking for a surface treatment real fast.
I just did a quick Google search and the Ti pins are out there (motorcycles, VW TDIs, couple others). Diamond-like carbon (DLC) coated.