I believe the harness side is the female pins. I don't know if he has the tool or not. I playing virtual parts locator from 500 miles away just to try to help him out. I know he's under an extreme time crunch (within 72 hrs) so ordering and having shipped in is not an option. Trying to pull a rabbit out of the hat so to speak, his plans are to hit up a few local stealership mechanics in hopes they have spare parts hanging around and maybe local pull a part yards as last result. Just hoping I could find someone that could help him out and maybe save him some time.