Prayers Needed - Loss in the Family

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adamsmarshall

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Hey guys, just wanted to ask for prayers for the family. For those of you who don't know as of yet as of this morning my soon to be wife, Amanda and I have lost our baby girl, Kinleigh. As you can imagine this is a very difficult time for us both and our corresponding families so thank you all in advance for your prayers.

Details of the situation are that we went for our 20 week ultrasound and doctors appointment this morning and come to find out there is no heart beat. Kinleigh has seemed to have passed away at 16 weeks, which must have been a couple days after our first ultrasound which was also at 16 weeks.

I am currently in the hospital in Austin, Texas awaiting the delivery of our child and just ask for all the prayers possible for these soon to be trying days, weeks, and months ahead although I know God has his reasons for all of this it is still so difficult and find myself just wishing I'd wake from this horrible dream.

I know Amanda and I will make it through but thank you again in advance for all of your prayers.

Also thank you all for being those that you are, what other site could I ever ask for the prayers that I can here.

Marshall Adams
 
I am so very sorry to hear that. Late term like that is very difficult, I know as I have been there myself. Take care of your wife to be, and take care of yourself, and know, that there is absolutely nothing you could have done, nothing. Words will not replace your loss, but know that there are a bunch of us thinking of you guys in your time of grief. If you need anything, I am here in Austin as well. Just shoot me a PM if anything comes up.
 
Thank you bud and as hard as it is we are trying to keep our chins up. I'll be sure to let you know if theres anything though. Thanks again
 
im sorry to hear of your loss. ill keep youa in my thoughts and prayers and have my church pray for you. stay strong!
 
I'm really sorry to hear that man, You and Yours will be in our prayers.
 
extremely sad news, god must have a plan for her in heaven. my thoughts and prayers
 
Thank you all so very much. Every prayer is appreciated more than you can possibly imagine. God bless you all
 
Sorry for your loss. We had a very similar experience a number of years ago, worst day of my life.
 
Marshall - so sorry to hear this, im sure this is very upsetting for you and your family, my wife is a 7 weeks 2 days pregnant, i have been nevously in the back of my head waiting, and praying that all will be ok through the begenning of the pregnancy, i can't even begin to compehend how you must be feeling right now. we can't always understand why such devestating things happen for no reason, but keep you head up, be strong, and you, your wife, and family will make it through this horrible time.

Wes
 
Im very sorry for your loss, ill keep the prayers headed your way, god bless yall
 
im sorry to hear the bad news my friend my wife an i went through that bout a year an a half ago we no the pain we b praying for you an your wife to be
 
Sorry to hear the news. We went through a similar thing probably 7 years ago it was earlier in the term. Not to make light of the situation, but we now have a 6 and a 4 year old. Take the time to heal. We felt that what happened to us happened for a reason.
 
Marshall, my wife and I had the exact thing happen to us. I mean exact. We were into our second trimester and everything. It was termed a Missed Miscarriage. We found out on 10/11/08. I still remember it well. Though no words will help or bring any answers, believe me when I say I know what you're going through. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your wife.

I know the difficult days ahead and how tough and agonizing it is going to be providing comfort for your wife when you desperately need the same.

I also know how frustrating it is to have folks tell you they know what you're going through. For that, I am sorry.

The sliver lining to my story is that on 8/14/09 I was blessed with a happy healthy baby daughter. I'm sure that in time when you're ready you will enjoy the same. I also know how little comfort that statement provides in this terrible time.

If I can do anything to help even if its just an ear to scream about the injustices of this world and the Whys that no one can answer, PM me your number. I'd be happy to give you a call.

Thoughts and prayers,
AE
 
Thank you all again so very much. And Amish thank u for that and you're spot on with what u said. Congrats on your child and I do know in my heart there has to be some reason that god has for this to happen and I know when ready it will all work out. God bless you all and thank u from the bottom of my heart
 
Marshall, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. If we can do anything, feel free to let me know. My wife and I had ZERO luck getting pregnant for about 18 months, and then the Good Lord blessed us with a child. While we did not have to go through the pain of a miscarriage, we had many rough nights wondering why things were not going our way. My advice is to cling to those that love you and keep praying. My baby Girl got here 9/30, and she has truly been a blessing. We will be keeping you and Amanda in our prayers buddy.
 
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