If only you could read my text messages.
Repeated turbo failures are almost always due to kinked supply lines and openings in the charge air components.
Bellows are almost always damaged. They can be incredibly subtle, to the point you have to stick your hand in and feel the air charge escaping.
Like others have said, the money is better spent on the oil system updates, diverter valve update, and a tune to disable the IVA's.
After that you're just waiting on a rocker to turn sideways at 600k ?
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