I think it's a combination of things that allow death wobble, particularly as the vehicle's ride height and/or tire size is changed.
As ball joints wear, there can be an appreciable amount of play in them and still be in "spec" according to dodge.
Tires that are "D" rated also have a tendancy to cause death wobble. Worn tie rod linkages, any slop in the steering linkage, worn out control arm bushings, out of alignment, etc can lead toward wobble.
The track bar for sure is one of the biggest culprits. I started getting death wobble, and it wasn't long before my trackbar bushing actually fell out, leaving the truck nearly undriveable!
The OEM steering damper is actually not that bad if you just do mostly on-road driving and are running close to stock size tires.
It sounds like you've covered the bases, but best things to remember are:
Run E rated tires, max out castor at 6° or so, replace any worn components/bushings/etc, make sure all bolts are TIGHT on the front end, and make sure there's no play in the ball joints at all! Run sufficient tire pressure especially in the fronts.
I did the '08 steering upgrade, put on Carli upper ball joints, Carli lower ball joints, replaced the stock damper with a Carli Bilstein 7100 and added the Carli Bilstein high mount stabilizer, installed a Carli trackbar, KORE hybrid race control arms, and am running Toyo E rated tires. No more death wobble here!!!
In fact the front end is super tight even on rough railroad crossings...whether at 10 mph or 70!!! :hehe:
--Eric