The ones I've crushed this time crushed .015 thou on the ring, with no distortion to the head gasket. The head gasket measures out around .084-.088 depending on where I measure. Either way I'm certain now that the first pass that was done on my head is no where near deep enough.
If you're cutting .031 for the .105s on a 20 over gasket, then all things considered I would cut a .051 for my .125s. So, if my math is right I'm looking at:
.125
- .085(ish) <-HeadGasket
- .051 <- Groove
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.011 crush
EDIT: No, no, no... God I'm so sick of this.
Ok, think! If I have a head and I set the ring on it and the ring is .125, then it has a protrusion of .125, now I counter sink it into the head with a groove measuring .051 and now it has a protrusion of .074, The head gasket is only .085(ish) thick, to start with, so pre-torqued my fire ring isn't touching and it sounds like post-torque it isn't touching either if it only crushes the head gasket to .080??? Sounds to me like the groove should be cut around .040, which would result in the head gasket and the fire ring sitting even to start with and crush them the same.