3/8" wall DOM (don't remember the I.D.) happened to fit the biggest top links Tractor Supply had the best. I spent close to $400 on Dan's and got lucky and found a 15' drop for $100 at a local pipe yard on mine. Plenty heavy enough IMHO.
What are they using for ends?
Dan, have you seen the hd end links that Tomac & Burkhardt use?? I got some front a big rig shop & they come as a set on a large dia. threaded rod. My bars are 2" square tubing. The threaded rod fit perfectly inside the tubing. Just had the end welded up & had plug welds in the tubing to the rod. They are substantially better than any tractor top link.
I'd recommend you step up the strength there or else the strongest rod is still going to fail where that small dia. link meets the tubing.