The reason to torque the studs three times is not to “stretch out the studs”.
Studs do not stretch as long as you do not torque them to the point where they yield.
The reason to torque the stud three times, in its lifetime, is to burnish, and mate the surface of the threads, you only have to do this on new studs, and from then on, it’s a onetime torque process. You achieve a percentage better clamping load by doing this.
If you do torque a stud to above what the engineers recommend and possibly take the fastener above the yield point, you have ruined the stud. It does not matter who tells you to torque the fastener above the recommended value, you are messing up, and this is the reasons the studs are failing.
In addition, do not torque a engine hot, , that is just plain against every engineering principal in the books engine blocks and heads expand when they heat up, if you torque the stud at that point , when the engine cools the clamping load is less.
So one more times
If some ones tells you to torque a ARP fastener over the recommended value, 125 ft lbs for 12mm ARP 2000 material, and 150 ft lbs for ARP Custom New age 625 material, or they tell you to torque a engine hot . They are wrong. No matter who,