If you use it for towing and a daily driver, I would go with a #10 plate, MAYBE a #100.
3kgsk with some pump tuning.
YES, there are single disc clutches that will EASILY hold the power you are looking at.
South Bend Clutch has a Con OFE thats good to over 450hp for around $900. Many people on here run this clutch and have dynod over 500hp with it.
Valair Clutch is another good manufacturer that has some cheaper prices you can get their ofe 13" clutch for $500.
You can then go with a set of injectors, New Era diesel makes some nice sets for reasonable.
If you have some cash left over, which you should, check out High Tech Turbo and Industrial Injection for some nice turbo upgrades. If you tow stay with a 62mm wheel, anything bigger gets to laggy.
One thing I will agree about with jdog56 is get some gauges. Pyro and boost is minimum.
Also a 4" exhaust and Intake will help.
Just doing some searching on here will give you a TON of info.