I think stock stall would do you just fine.
The thing with going to loose is that you lose a lot of efficiency that is nice to have when daily driving. Especially if you pull a trailer. But if you dont, then i think a stock stall should be a pretty good stall for your setup.
Im willing to bet a stock stall converter will run up to 2100-2200rpm without a lot of problem in 4hi. 4 low is makes it much harder to hold back because of the gear reduction so a looser stall is needed if you need that RPM in 4 low(for sled pulling).
If the stock stall converters in these things were 1400-1600rpm, then the stock tranny would actually be alright!
And the looser of a converter you have, the harder it will be on shafts and parts when it locks. It has to make up more RPM difference to lock than a tighter converter so it shock loads the driveline harder. Probably not enough to hurt much, but it will be a little harder on stuff IMO.
Eric