I have no issue welding a diff, but most of the people on here street the truck, and the 02+ dodge trucks you can't weld the diffs, I will strongly discourage running a welded diff in the rear on a street truck. It was terrible, most turns were 3 point turns etc etc.
ARB's are very strong and yes they are expensive, but it allows some good options. The CAD systems on some of the trucks are problematic. My own CAD system will hang in the disengaged position, and requires me to do a slight dissassembly, so I just disconnected the disengage line, it will work it self clear if you put around in 2 HI, but for the most part it stays together.