I have been looking into rear axles lately since I am tossing the IRS and going solid axle with 4 link. I have been looking at the 9", dana 60, GM 9.5" 14bolt and the GM 10.5" 14 bolt.
Out of those 4 rear axles, the 9" in my opinion will never handle comfy street cruising and a decent amount of diesel tq at the strip with slicks, reaons being for anything over 31 splin in a 9" you have to go with a locker, ARB makes a 35 spline air locker but they already have a bad reputation from everyone I have talked to, their 31 spline is supposed to be great but will twist a shaft at the track with slicks.
The Dana 60 will probably work best in my 4000 truck shooting for low 11's or high 10's with a true track and 35 spline shafts along with an aftermarket housing from strange engineering, but in a 7500 pound truck I would look for something with more beef.
The 10.5" 14 bolt would probably never go anywhere since the 4x4 guys done even tear them up bone stock (with an aftermarket locker and gears only). I saw one guy with a 400hp big block, sm465 and 10:1 transfer case (yes 10: LOL) go over crazy rocks all day and the 14 bolt just laughed at him, still hasnt broken it after 2 years. The main problem is the 10.5 is heavy at around 500-550 from what I understand but I have never weighed one.
The 9.5" 14 bolt is too light duty and I have seen alot of stock 6.0L gassers stock tear them up.
If it were me I would go with an AAM 11.5" with some shafts and a locker if your going to pull, they seem to be holding up well.
If you do decide to go with a 14 bolt, done worry about spring perches, if you can weld half decent they are easy to setup, just take a few measurements, set your pinion angle, tack weld in place bolt up check it all out in the truck then remove and weld perches fully, should take 30 minutes to get it right your first time.
Thats just my take on rear ends. People always just to the 9" axle first off but these trucks arent 2500 pound race cars running 40 spline shafts and lockers. Heck my 3860 pound truck with me in it is considered heavy by those standards imagine how most racers would look at you when you talk about one of our 7500-8000 pound trucks LOL