Lower ratio levers have less leverage, therefore, apply less force to the band, therefore lower the torque capacity of 2nd gear.
The higher the ratio, the farther the 2nd servo has to move to apply and release the band, therefore it is true that 5.0 ratio levers take longer to apply and release than the stock 3.8 ratio lever.
Alot of people run 4.2 ratio levers 10% more leverage than stock 3.8 ratio at the expense of less favorable apply/release timing (there is more chance to overlap the 2-3 shift with a higher ratio lever).
I think DTT is the main aftermarket tranny supplier pushing the 4.4 ratio levers, 15% more leverage than stock.
What tranny building is requesting that you run a 2.5 ratio lever? The only time I could see that being beneficial is on a high revving gasser motor doing 8000 rpm shifts where speed of the shift is more important than ultimate torque capacity in 2nd gear.