heinzboy said:
Thats fine I was just curious as long as you stay true too your words.
Toby, here is my take, not that it matters.
I feel bad about the way I handled the situation on Gogo, and that is the most sincere I can be. I regret continuing down a thread with personal attacks, and really have no excuse. I through the first insult, and when challenged further, instead of backing off, I continued to give, what I was given, and for that I am truly sorry. What got/gets my goat is when someone demands respect. The way I was brought up, and the way I see it is like this.
There are a few people I have to respect, those are my parents, my wife, my son, my family, and well GOD! There are a whole bunch more I choose to respect. That list is much, much longer, and include my friends, the professionals I work with, law enforcement, (most of them), those that have gone before me, and broken ground in the things that I respect, Chuck Yeager, and Lindberg in aviation. Those that have and are working to improve the lives of everyone through research. The men and women in uniform that are protecting my ass. Guys in this business who have quietly proven themselves with a thunder at the track, guys like Keating, Morrison, the TS gang, Gene, (weweld), stuckey, ETC.............(this is by no means a complete list). Then there are those that I don't consider at all, not saying that in a negative way, just that I do not know them and for the most part they do not influence my life positively or negatively......the guy in the line in front of you at starbucks, the girl at the gym on the treadmill......etc.....etc....
Then there are those that I do not respect, at the top of that list are people that demand respect. You have to earn respect, its not a guarantee. Someone saying, (or implying) "you better respect me" just because they want my respect, too f'in bad. Give me a reason to respect you, and I will. Show me a reason not to, and I will not. I respect you as an acquantance, and show you that respect, because although I have never met you you present yourself in a "respectable" manner. (Most of the time, LOL).
What I do respect about this kid is that he stands up for himself. He did not back down, and I honestly believe as I have said before that he believes he is making that kind of power, because he has been told he is by someone he looks up to. I respect that in his pictures he he appears to be having a great time,a nd obviously loves what he is doing. He looks like he is hanging out with family and friends, and is doing well at the track.
WHat I don't respect is his attitude towards everyone else, and the fact that his claims are so far off base that they are an insult to those who are making, and have made those numbers that he claims. I do not respect the fact that he agrees to prove himself, but then only agrees to prove himself with the rediculous rules that he stated. I don't respect the fact that he wants to only race on the street, (I know we differ opinions here, but there is a huge difference in street racing, and hauling ass after a light, or accelerating in traffic, or mashing the pedal to get in front of other traffic. There is a huge difference in 60-80 to 80-100+). I don't respect the fact that he demands respect for his claimed number, when all indications appear it to be false. He has run very respectable track times, but far short of that which could back up his 755 HP number.
I'll wrap up now. He will get the respect due to him should he man up and prove his claims. I will not disrespect him, (and regret much of what I said to him) again. Prove me and the masses wrong, and I will be the first to eat crow,a dn apologize. That would be giving the respect that would be earned. Continue along the same path, and he will get the respect that he currently deserves.
Sorry for the long post.:thankyou2: